Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Marching Band Season


The gentle fall breezes lead the way into the crisp evening air muffled with the sounds of.....
 ...bellowing fans and musical brasswoodwinds and percussion instruments...

High school football season thrills the amateur sporting enthusiast and awakens the teenage hormones as Friday night games between rivals commence.  Marching band members perform their perfected half-time show for their eager parents and friends and encourage the crowd to engage in cheer during the competition. Experiencing this "sporting" amplitude is a much look-forward-to event. 
As young parents, I can not reveal that our goal for our children was performing in a High School Marching Band, however, it is certainly a "pay-back" moment for all the hours spent coaching, persuading, bribing, pleading and yelling for more practice time on their chosen instrument.

The dynamics of such a group have benefited the social needs of our boys and given them confidence in performing and committing to a rigorous schedule of events.  Dedicated directors, leaders, and mentors have carefully molded the incoming freshman (mine included) into fine-tuned musicians and marchers.
Remarkably, even small High School's across the country gather musicians and train them in performance etiquette, marching, and instrumentation. The sense of "belonging" to a group is categorically pivotal to success in high school.
Marching band members take participation in this group seriously. If one member is absent, a gap is left and must be masked by others, making it challenging to complete the drill.

Stereotypes of band geeks may prevent the stalwart teen from entering the performance field, however, at the high school my children attend, the "band geeks" are almost always the student-selected winners of the Homecoming and Prom King and Queen Courts!
Increasingly, marching bands are performing indoor concerts that implement many of the songs, traditions, and flair from outside performances.
Most marching bands use some kind of uniform (often of a military style) that include the school or organization's nameshakospith helmetsfeather plumesgloves, and sometimes gauntlets, and/or capes.

Dedication to practices, drills, maneuvers, music memorization and weather flexibility make a Marching Band Member one of the most noticeable students in the school. The stand-outs have a reputation of honor, respectability, morals, intuition, and intelligence. 

Whether the uniform is militaryesque or bright yellow, collectively marching as a group and performing demanding musical shows creates harmonious group dynamics. This spirit of belonging resonates with a student's confidence and academic achievement.

High School marching band is the place to be!

Saturday, September 17, 2011

17 comes much too fast

Hunter's birthday on September 12 always comes around so quickly and takes me off-guard. Especially after the 10-year-anniversary of September 11!

The morning of his birthday, I had not a present to share with him.

After I rolled out of bed and made a quick breakfast for him, I did not stop running and planning for Hunter's 17th birthday evening celebration. On the agenda included Sprint Store, HyVee, Aeropastle, and Sam's club for ribs and double-layer chocolate chip cookie cake.--a family favorite!

My evening activities were filled with a meeting for our High School band (I am the Parent Band President this year) and a piano lesson for Carson and then we ate a late dinner and had grandma and grandpa over for dessert!

 Believing that my second son is 17 takes my breath away. He will leave the nest in less than two years!
Hunter's favorite present was his upgraded HGC Sprint Phone. Now he can check his homework scores ALL the time.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

I love myself a good french horn

Inspiring FREE live orchestra music presented by the KC Symphony was a very memorable way to spend a comfortable Labor Day evening.  Even better, we spent the concert with friends Chris and Jenny Staggs and Heidi Bills and daughters. They are members of our church congregation.


I found this picnic idea very interesting! A portable table is something I must search for for our next outdoor event involving a meal!
One of my passions is listening to orchestra/band music and although I have no musical talent, I am a most enthusiastic fan. I am always inspired by the bold, strong, vigorous sound of a full orchestra and my favorite sound is from the FRENCH HORN! That bellowing really gets me pumped!

I hope the children enjoyed the live event as much as I did. Exposing my children to quality music has always been a priority of mine and if you follow my blog at all, you MigHT know that!


Look who joined us? Katie, Sarah, and Elizabeth Wheeler!

Friday, September 2, 2011

Quantum of energy?


Transition: an abrupt change in energy state or level (as of an atomic nucleus or a molecule) usually accompanied by loss or gain of a single quantum of energy
My 4 children in school all day

Am I losing or gaining energy? That is the question of the day.

 Since 1997, my morning routine has been waking groggy, bed-head, grouches and shuffling them out the door praying confidently that the Aldi's chocolate cocoa crispies would last until 10:30 am. Just as I would shut the door, another creature barked.  There at my feet was the toddler-- begging to watch "the grouch" on Sesame Street!

                       The barking has stopped. The house is quiet. I am alone.

My friends warned me this would come fast, but in the midst of the 13 years of chaos and rush, I mocked their words.

...And here it is...

Transitioning to this new phase is certainly a loss:  companionship--albeit a sub-human specimen in the making--, snuggles and hugs all day, spontaneous "I Love You's", playtime at Jumping Jax--meeting other Mom's while kids play, shopping trips with a fellow shop-o-ho-lic

Transitioning to this new phase is also a gain:  focus, quiet, uninterrupted time, gas money, lunch with MY friends,  getting to the items on my "bucket-list", boredom, weight-gain, (ooops, those are the negative)


Recently, I visited a novelty Toy Store to buy some incentive rewards to aid in teaching my 6-yr-old to "stick with her task."  As I meandered through the isles, peacefully and quietly, I reflected that the last time I visited this store, I had a toddler in tow. During my fantasy reflection, the child was a happy and willing participant during the trip bouncing and skipping, however, the SCREAMS of a nearby noise snap me back to reality! 

(My youngsters were the MOST horrible shoppers and would beg, cry, whine, yell, pounce, escape my wrath in order to have their instant gratification satisfied.  Sometimes I caved--sometimes I did not!)
(consistency is NOT my thing)

Back to reality--my continuing search in the store revealed many Mom's and children together connecting, hugging, sharing, snuggling, laughing and there I was...


...alone...


I put my big girl pants on and let my brain carry on a most enthusiastic conversation something like this, "your kid would just be begging and screaming for that pink over-priced, plastic, noise-making junk and you would need to "go to the happy zone" to simply get her out of the store without punching her"


My conversing worked! No tears. 


After my successful purchase, I headed out the door, proud that I did not cave to the emotions..........Then I got to the car.................


and lost it! The ugly cry where I could not even turn the key to start the car!


Did I mention my youngest kid is just in 1st grade? She will be home in 3 hours!


Dressed for success as she heads off to a FULL day of 1st grade!

Jessica Tamara Bishop with Mrs. Z!
Carson Bishop is off to another year of Middle School--filled with a renewed confidence,
 Hunter--a junior in High School--BARELY let me snap this picture! I wonder how mortified he would be if I showed up at his first hour class to snap a shot with his band teacher?  You've never seen the EVIL eye with smoke wafting from it?



...I am now a "single quantum of energy" and I can CHOOSE if I lose or gain energy. 


...Which will it be today?...