Without a computer

For the last three weeks, I have been trying to find answers concerning the difficulties my I Mac is having. Thus one of the hobbies that I enjoy so much has come to a stand-still--journaling and creating a digital archive for my posterity and family to keep them informed of the events of our lives. Discouragement has set in and I realize how much I rely on this creative outlet for joy. This week, I remain optimistic that $550 and several attempts at solving the problem will return my computer to health and well-being. It appears that a new logic board and hard drive are needed. I certainly hope that replacing these parts will add new life to me and my computer.

Several noteworthy events have transpired this past month. Brandon has been particularly busy with involvement in the BVN pit orchestra (playing the trumpet) for the musical "Curtains", being nominated for Sweetheart king at his high School, teaching and performing Michael Jackson's dance "Thriller" to several other students at an assembly, a winter band performance and getting accepted to BYU.

As parents, we recognize that his achievements and performances under our supervision are nearing an end. This sentiment motivates me to attend all of the remaining events that Brandon participates in. A bonus is always having my family cheering him on as well. Although he is not without his teenage emotional battles, he continues to strive for success in school and other activities and make us proud.

He has taken a major step to maturity by building a steady friendship and relationship with one of the other fellow drum majors, Kristy Konkak. Of course, it is also uncharted territory for Brad and I as parents. Seeing your son develop feelings for a beautiful, intelligent and accomplished girl is not only refreshing, but frightening. The realization of letting go and releasing control while maintaining a healthy relationship to continue a positive influence on your children is the challenge we face. Open communication (and certainly a lot of humor) has proven to be a strategy that works with Brandon and I am grateful that he feels comfortable and trusts sharing with me.

We have discovered a new sit-com that we watch with the teenagers and Carson that hits quite close to home and bonds us with laughter. "The Middle" starring Patricia Heaton on Wednesday nights.

Link to The Middle

On several occasions, I have nicknamed Brandon "Axel" as he shares many of the same personality tendencies as this character. The show's writers have developed a cast and script that truly represent middle America and the struggles they face with their teens, emerging teens, and "special" children that have so many gifts. Carson' is our "BRICK" and surprises us everyday with his growing maturity.

Hunter completed a successful first wrestling season despite his "spinal chord injury." (and we survived the LONG Saturday/weeknight matches). Often, Carson, Jessie and I spent our entire Saturday waiting, watching, and supporting Hunter and the BVN wrestling team. I am proud of Hunter for working so hard and sticking with the sport. Even though I object to some parts of the sport, it builds incredible strength, discipline, and effort in young boys.

Carson has also beeen busy playing basketball, performing in the 5th grade orchestra, band and choir and advancing to 11-year-old scouts. He received his Webelos badge and all compass points and his Arrow of Light. His cubmaster, Jenny Stagggs, made him an awesome REAL arrow as a reward for all his hard work. I am proud of his efforts in school and other activities. He is working hard at taking school seriously and learning all he can.

Jessica enjoys her preschool and music class. She sings all day long and loves to make up her own lyrics. Attending her brothers events keeps her very involved.

This past week, we have all been glued to NBC coverage of the Winter Olympics in Canada. We are giving our best support to team USA by cheering them on from the comfort of our own living room. No boots, coats, gloves, scarves, hats, socks, or thermals--just heaters and rice bags and warm comfy quilts.