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Tuesday, April 13, 2010

What a difference 9 years makes

As promised in my post of pictures of a 2001 road trip, I offer these reflections of a changed vacation plan from 2001 to 2010.
1. Technology and the Internet
'01--We had to tote a small suitcase to transport maps and books from AAA in order to plan the trip; (still got lost MANY MANY MANY TIMES with emotional meltdowns in between) 5 pieces of paper contained typed important information as well as a calendar. The paper carried remnants of McDonald's ketchup at the end of the trip. We filed it away in Carson's scrapbook as he drew a pretty great drawing of a cat. 4 months in advance, we began negotiation to secure the "right" price for accomodations and recreation.

'10--I carried an I-POD Touch that fit in the palm of my hand. Phone numbers, addresses, email, calendar, WI FI access to helpful information--all at the touch of a finger. Activities to keep the kids entertained while waiting in line motivated me to ALWAYS have full battery power. (I would've stored virtual gum in there if I could!) We named our price on PRICELINE the day before we needed a hotel and arrived at our destination safely by listening intently to our friendly GARMIN GPS with the sexy voice. (never got lost)

Itinerary--Day 1 and 2: Mini-van loaded with "entertainment" accessories kept everyone sane during the 2-day trip to NewPort Beach, CA. We booked our first night sleep in Albuerque at a STARBUCKS (free WI FI) 200 miles out of town. We were led their by our GPS to the hotel.
Using EXPEDIA.com 3 days before we left, we committed to a CHEAP 3-day stay in Newport Beach 15 minutes from Disney, my sister, Chris and 5 minutes from the beach!!! Using the free WI FI in the hotel, we printed off 3-day passes to Disneyland and Universal Studios for 6 people. (we then transferred cash to make sure our account did not crash!)
The "UNABOMBER" (aka Brandon) decided to join us on our vacation and appears in many pictures. The "disguise" provided needed protection from the harming sun's rays. Strong acne medication makes your skin vulnerable to damage.
2. Keeping everyone PLUGGED up or PLUGGED in
'01 A pacifer, fruit snacks, lollipops, gum, jolly ranchers, duct tape, etc. was used throughout this trip to keep the young from screaming. As persistent young parents, we encouraged many educational activities during the long road-trip such as reading, puzzle solving, math facts. ONLY a 1/2 hour into the trip, the fighting began. A western Wyoming Walmart was a welcome site as we dumped the old uncomfortable car seat and "installed" a new one to keep the prince happy. We would've paid anything to make him stop SCREAMING. BEST IMPULSE purchase ever was the stand-alone DVD player. It may have sucked the brains out of the kids, but it kept them ALIVE!
'10 With the purchase of our 2007 Honda Odyssey mini-van (a CARMAX success story) keeping all 4 kids PLUGGED in was easy. (we never worry about sucking their brains out anymore, just our own SANITY) Jessie could listen to Disney show tunes with the wireless headphones while the teenagers could listen and watch HARRY POTTER movies on the DVD and rock out to Green Day. The splitter allowed all 4 kids to listen to the DVD movie hanging from the wall while the driver peacefully made his/her music selection.
3. An independent fashion consultant
'01 Wherever we traveled, Mom chose the wardrobe. Making sure all boys were matching was not only a fashion statement, but a safety factor. Traveling through all the parks with 3 boys made us crave caffeine and high doses of anxiety meds. These matching GAP shark shirts (found a deal) were tugged on many times, dragging the disobedient into the safety of the "gam."
'10  Lists of clothing items to take and the number of pairs of underwear and socks were given to each boy in hopes that the chosen wardrobe would make it into the suitcase. A close observation in the photos taken, one will notice the SAME shirt, pants, etc on the teens each day. (Of course, Jessie was dressed by Mom and willingly took suggestions of color choices). During a long line at Disney, I observed Carson wearing a pair of shorts that DID NOT even ZIP up. They were two sizes too small. An experienced Mom just made him pull his t-shirt down.

4. We go together like ramma lamma lamma ka dinga da dinga dong 
'01 We thought we had invented the genius idea of putting our cell phone number in Carson's fanny pack in case he got lost. During the 1 1/2 hours he WAS LOST, Carson never even thought to TALK TO A STRANGER and share our cell phone number. Because we only had one cell phone, we relied on WALKIE TALKIES to stick together. The problem was, so did every other of the 10,000 visitors to the park. Access to an open band was impossible. (we got lost MANY MANY MANY times)

'10 A much more creative approach to preventing child endangerment (besides a parent's approach to discipline) is BLACK PERMANENT MARKER. A SPRINT texting plan and 4 phones worked wonders at preventing the inevitable separation that takes place with 6 people on different entertainment agendas trying to maneuver the park to see ALL attractions and get your $300 a day worth of FUN!
5. Creative ways to pack food and supplies to carry into the park so we could still pay our mortgage AFTER our vacation
'01 As mom's of multiple children know, a stroller can pack a load of crap for any outing. Diapers, wipes, bottles, diaper creme, blanket, extra clothing, video camera, camera, sunscreen, sunglasses, water bottles, cooler, mini fridge, portable TV, rope, legal drugs, camel back filled with diet coke, etc...That is how we survived the theme parks with these 3 boys.
'10 One VERY HEAVY pack carried by mom carried all the supplies we needed. Boost, water bottles, medicine, cell phones, camera, video camera, passes to the parks, etc. 


PRICELINE works like magic for finding an affordable and available hotel and one can find a Walmart for food and supplies anywhere in the USA---except Orange and Los Angeles, County. 

(I also noticed that ALL the mini-vans on the California freeway had OUT OF STATE LICENSE PLATES!!!!!)

 A balcony breakfast from a luxurious resort overlooking a golf course was our BEST FIND! 

 Somehow, Dolly Madison donuts from Smiths, felt dummy downed for the occasion!

6.  The "possibility" of meeting family/friends and the "reality" of making it happen
'01  Participating in my brother, Greg and Tori's, wedding was the catalyst for this 3-week road trip.  Arrangements for this gathering took place a year in advance.



'01 Several months before hitting the road to California, we also contacted friends we lived next to when in Provo, Utah--Patty and Marion Hammond--and asked if we could visit them in Las Vegas while passing through. After several phone calls, the date was set and specific directions were given to their home. We got lost, AGAIN!
Pictured below are their children Jared, Trent, and Diana and our 3 boys!
'10  The FIRST day of our trip, while on a western Kansas highway, I accessed my FACEBOOK account and left a message for two Arizona friends.  Minutes later, I read my "in-box" messages on FB and began to make arrangements to meet. While waiting in line at Disney and Universal Studios, I logged-in again and like "magic" we secured the plans--when, where, how to meet in Arizon! Using our handy, dandy GPS, we NEVER got lost.

L-R:  Jana and Nathan Cherrington
Stephanie and Brad Bishop
Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.  ~From the television show The Wonder Years

----John, Emily, Allison and Kate Cherrington---Bishop Kids







Visting with Jennie, Andrew, 
Ben, Isacc, Zoe and Madeline Rounseville
The Rounsevilles relocated from the midwest to Arizona in 2005. Making their home in Prescott, AZ is a dream come true for the family who would choose to live in a tent if it had central cooling. Andy often dumps his SUV for a bike and heads to work in the ER.  Jennie  and I served together in Cub Scouts and Primary. Andy experienced life in one of the most busy downtown ER's in the midwest as he completed medical residency at Truman Medical Center. Jennie and I share a lot of similar experiences of single motherhood and surviving residency. 

We are forever bonded and had a short, yet memorable time catching up at their home in Prescott, AZ, a town Northwest of Phoenix in the mountains.


We only part to meet again.  ~John Gay

Look forward to a post in 
2020 listing the travel changes--

"Portable self-contained Urinals "
Imagine the Possibilities

5 comments:

  1. Loved, loved, LOVED the vacation post! My favorite was your cell phone number on the leg! Classic!!! You are SO adorable! I am looking forward to the "mommy in the middle" chronicles! You are so cute and creative!

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  2. Memories like the corner of my mind. Scattered pictures. Ha Ha Ha. Love the vacation stories. Does the permenant ink come off the leg. I might do that to my kids this summer. Tanya

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  3. I love that picture. So cute, of course I have never seen it. So glad you could have such a fun family vacay before Brandon heads off to school. congrats on his going to BYU.

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  4. Goodness how much times have changed! I had forgotten that '01 was all that long ago, technologically-speaking.

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  5. I am exhausted just from looking at the busy family pictures and reading how funny my friend is!!!!! I am so behind the times and I thought I was still in middle age for a little bit more...guess not! but I am managing to keep up with 5 grandchildren!! Now there is some fun mommie!!!

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